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      Happy Songkran 2025 … at Adams Apple Club Chiang Mai
      Sunday 13th April + Monday 14th April + Tuesday 15th April
      Songkran is a term derived from the Sanskrit word, saṅkrānti (or, more specifically, meṣa saṅkrānti) and used to refer to the traditional New Year for Buddhist calendar. Thai New Year or Songkran is the Thai New Year's national holiday. Songkran is on 13 April every year, but the holiday period extends from 14 to 15 April.
      Songkran 2025 Chiang Mai – We opened on Songkran and created special shows for our customers. Stay tuned and look forward to our shows during this very exciting time.
      It takes place from the 13th – 15th April (the hottest time of the year) throughout the country, but Chiang Mai spreads this out for up to 5 days, making it one of the best places to celebrate the world’s biggest water fight.
      A fun-loving venue that attracts a mixed crowd of straight and gay guests. All people from all over the world are welcome, regardless of nationality or orientation, popular with the LGBT community.
      We wish YOU a Happy Songkran 2025





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Like so many here, I witnessed the fall of the Soviet Union and the re-arrangement of the world order from the bipolar world it represented. While both empires fell relatively quickly; we should not assume that the US empire will vanish as quickly. I think the difference may be that the British and Soviet empires had their economies hollowed out to a much larger extent than the US' today, and so when they collapsed, it was more complete. The US economy is still relatively strong so even if its political influence wanes (mostly due to self-inflicted damage) it will remain an economic force to be reckoned with.  The British empire My understanding is that the fall of the British Empire was a classic example of military overreach, but a fiction of military might still have been sustained for a century more if not for Kaiser Germany and Nazi Germany. The two World Wars accelerated the humbling of Great Britain by draining it of precious resources. Also - and we often forget - by the beginning of the 20th Century, Britain had lost the technological edge  and industrial might to the USA. So, by about 1915 or 1916 when Britain was struggling in the trenches in France, dependent on supplies from across the Atlantic (attacked by German submarines) the writing was on the wall. There was still much political pretence of power in the 1920s and 1930s (King George V's extravagant visit to India for example), but the economic troubles and electoral upheavals of that period further hollowed out the UK. The Second World War was the coup de grace; after that it could be nothing but retreat after retreat from imperial status after 1945. So, even as I speak of a fast collapse of the British Empire, it still took about 30 years from 1915 to 1945, and then another 20 years to 1965 before decolonisation had more or less run its course.. The Soviet empire The collapse of the Soviet Union, in my estimation, took about 25 years, which is still remarkably long considering that the Soviet empire was only built on military mght, never on economic might. The Soviet empire came about because its armies were victorious over the Nazis across large swathes of Europe. There was enough industrial prowess to support a powerful military but Russia never developed a well-rounded economic engine to deliver prosperity and a better life for the peoples it had conquered. Starting from 1956 in Budapest, merely 10 years after the establishment of its sphere of influence, it had to use military power to suppress a revolt. This would be repeated every decade. 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    • The exact amount of time it takes to get to my hotel, both shower, do the deed and shower/pay. If I want more than that i'll do LT.
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